I mean guys.. Get in here..I think you’ld like to see this.. and girls too, even though it would be of more benefit to the guys.
so I asked some girls.. Random and those that I’m familiar with, this question- “what are the first 8 things you notice when you first meet a guy?”
And surprisingly, most of them gave the same answers.
Now we are not being superficial, this is just the first things most women notice when they meet a guy. This list is based on the opinion of different women including myself and some of them we notice even without talking to him. You know, like you notice a guy in a party, class, office or wherever.. These are the things we first notice and I’m listing them in no precise order.
This came first for most of the ladies. His overall “look”. Looks are important to women. People care far less about natural appearance than they do overall “look”. Like you can be pretty average looking, but put yourself together well and you are a heartthrob.
Also, remember that saying-“beauty is in the eyes of the beholder” well, a guy that a woman finds attractive will not appeal to another woman and vice versa. Ask most women to point out men they find attractive from a long list of photos, and they will pick tall and short guys. Dark and fair men, those with hair and those without..there’s more to physical attraction than meets the eye! But really, a guy’s look is one of those things she’ll first notice.
This is another thing we notice. More than half of the girls I asked said they notice the way he walks, stands and carries himself generally. You can almost tell a guy’s confidence by the way he carries himself. If he’s slouchy- like I can’t even be bothered, I don’t feel like walking kinda way or is he upright and his chin high and all that- you get the picture? Your posture says a lot about your confidence.
Ah! Majority said shoes and it the same for me except that I’m more interested in his feet. I like to see nice feet! Some guys always allow their feet to get nasty so if he has nice feet, it’s a good sign that he’s a clear person. Also, the size of his feet. A lot of people I asked were particular about the size of his feet- I guess you know what they say? Lol.
The eyes might be the window to the soul, but shoes are the window to just about everything else. What you choose to put on your feet actually does reflect something about you. Women will surely take a quick peek at your shoes and feet in some cases.
women judge men’s shoes twice as much as men judge women’s shoes.
Most women notice your manners. Simply put, mannerisms are subtle behaviours, a habitual gesture like facial expression, way of speaking or behaving generally. Like she’ll notice if you’re polite when asking for something. How you act when you are nervous, angry..
As a rule, arrogant, agressive or rude mannerisms are not what we want to see, especially when you are with or around us. So if you possess arrogance and rudeness as qualities you wanna keep that in check and save aggression for the sports arena, please!
Who doesn’t want to see clean hair; a good haircut and fine hairline? Clean skin, nails and teeth!?
If you’re wearing a beard, it should be well trimmed.. It shouldn’t be harbouring all sort of things . This in fact, is one the things I’ll personally notice first.
Short and clean fingernails, nice set of teeth, well groomed beards, nice haircut, fine hairline and clean skin won’t go unnoticed!
Ask women to name one thing that is an instant turn-off with men and time and time again you’ll hear either bad breath, body odour or smelly feet! If you’re up close, a woman can’t help but notice how you smell, smell bad and there will be no second chance to make a first impression.
One of the first things a woman will notice when you open your mouth is the tone of your voice and the words you say (the things you talk about). And of course she’ll notice your vocabulary.
Personally, this is the first thing I notice. I pay attention to the eyes. I watch where his eyes go. And it’s the same for a lot of women.
8. How smart you are
You’ll just know a smart person when you see one. His reasoning on rational things. His view on certain matters. In general, his attitude and approach towards things. You can almost never go wrong knowing if he’s a smart guy. It’ll definitely tell from what he says. They make “sense”. This, my fellow male is what she’ll look out for/notice. No one likes a doodle head!
Your smile is also something that’d be noticed. What’s there not to notice about a cute and genuine smile ?
10. Friend circle
This will never go unnoticed, at least for me. I’ll notice the kind of company you keep.
Proverbs 13:20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm
11. The ring finger.
Yeah some of us notice that too. Even though I got this from only 2 ladies. Women will check to see if you have a ring on that finger or not.
Generally, I just notice his hands. His palms to be precise. Is that weird?
If you want to make a good first impression, these are the things we are likely to notice.
I hope you guys enjoyed reading this post, please do not forget to invite a friend and tell that friend to invite another friend….
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Till next time..